{"id":5254,"date":"2023-10-25T07:24:01","date_gmt":"2023-10-25T07:24:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/infundpros.com\/finance\/my-husband-and-i-divorced-after-17-years-of-marriage-he-sold-our-home-at-a-significant-profit-am-i-entitled-to-my-share\/"},"modified":"2023-10-25T07:24:02","modified_gmt":"2023-10-25T07:24:02","slug":"my-husband-and-i-divorced-after-17-years-of-marriage-he-sold-our-home-at-a-significant-profit-am-i-entitled-to-my-share","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/infundpros.com\/?p=5254","title":{"rendered":"My husband and I divorced after 17 years of marriage. He sold our home at a significant profit. Am I entitled to my share?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dear Quentin,<\/strong><\/h2>\n

My husband and I were married for 17 years. We divorced 5 years ago. While we were married we had a home built, and we lived in the home until we separated.<\/p>\n

When we bought the house, we were advised to only put my husband\u2019s name on the loan, because I had already purchased a home years before. My name was added to the deed.<\/p>\n

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The home was not mentioned in the divorce decree. My ex-husband sold the home this year, and made a significant profit. Am I entitled to any portion of the profit and if so, how do I get it?<\/p>\n

Ex-Wife<\/p>\n

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Dear Ex-Wife,<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Something ain\u2019t right. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m curious to know who \u201cadvised\u201d you not to put your name on the home that was purchased during your marriage? Your husband\u2019s lawyer? If so, he was representing your husband\u2019s interests \u2014 not yours. Your own legal counsel? That seems unlikely. Did you sign a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement giving up all rights to this home? Did you agree that your husband would alone pay the mortgage? He can\u2019t sell a home without your signature, if your name was \u2014 in fact \u2014 on the deed.<\/p>\n

If your husband walked away from your marriage, and took the marital home with him, and told you that your name was on the deed and not on the loan, you should own 50% of the property. If he put your name on the loan and not on the deed \u2014 the opposite to what you believe you signed when you bought this house and, honestly, sounds more likely given his subsequent actions \u2014 you should still own a share of this home upon your divorce. It was bought during your marriage, and should be treated as community\/marital property.<\/p>\n

Stress and trauma can affect our decision making, and when people go through major life events like divorce and death, they are vulnerable to being taken advantage of. Rushing a divorce without adequate legal advice, not knowing what you are signing, and erroneously valuing and characterizing marital assets are all a risk. Some people are so desperate to get out of an unhealthy marriage, they are prepared to walk away from assets to which they are entitled, while others stay in bad marriages for financial reasons. Neither option is ideal.<\/p>\n

Your letter suggests that you either did not know what you were signing \u2014 in terms of the deed and mortgage documents and divorce papers \u2014 and\/or you did not have adequate legal counsel. I can\u2019t imagine a divorce lawyer worth their salt standing by while your husband walked away with a family home that was purchased during your marriage. There is no mention of a prenuptial agreement. It seems unfathomable to me that this happened. There are obviously a lot of unknowns in your story, but the most important fact is when this home was purchased.<\/p>\n

Anything you buy during your marriage \u2014 including a house \u2014 is regarded as marital property in most states, even if it\u2019s only titled in one spouse\u2019s name. Gifts and inheritance, and assets listed in a prenuptial agreement as separate, are non-marital property. Before getting married, it\u2019s important to discuss financial goals, responsibilities and, as you have discovered, ownership of assets. In a community-property state, assets acquired during the marriage are usually divided equally. In an equitable-distribution state, assets are divided fairly, if not always evenly.<\/p>\n

The other elephant in the room is the statute of limitations, which varies by state. In California, for instance, the statute of limitations is three years. \u201cThe statute of limitations to reopen a divorce settlement agreement is three years,\u201d according to Boyd Law, which is based in Los Angeles, Calif. \u201cOnce that time period has passed, you can no longer re-visit the division of assets agreed to in the settlement. The divorce settlement agreement is a binding contract for the dissolution of the marriage and cannot be broken or re-opened to contest once the statute of limitations passes.\u201d<\/p>\n

So before you allow any more time to pass, seek out fresh legal advice. Your future self may thank you for taking action now rather than later.<\/p>\n

You can email The Moneyist with any financial and ethical questions at qfottrell@marketwatch.com, and follow Quentin Fottrell on X, the platform formerly known as\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>Twitter.<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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Previous columns by Quentin Fottrell:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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My wife and I bought a beautiful lakeside home for $700,000. It\u2019s now worth $1.2 million. Do we sell now to avoid capital gains?<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n