{"id":9345,"date":"2023-11-03T23:12:59","date_gmt":"2023-11-03T23:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/infundpros.com\/business\/why-the-young-should-go-to-the-office\/"},"modified":"2023-11-03T23:12:59","modified_gmt":"2023-11-03T23:12:59","slug":"why-the-young-should-go-to-the-office","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/infundpros.com\/?p=9345","title":{"rendered":"Why the young should go to the office"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p>Stay informed with free updates<\/p>\n<p class=\"article__content-sign-up-topic-description\"><span>Simply sign up to the <!-- -->Life &amp; Arts<!-- --> myFT Digest &#8212; delivered directly to your inbox.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe class=\"article__content-sign-up-iframe close\" scrolling=\"no\" id=\"signUpIframe\" data-prev-url=\"\/register\/in-article-sign-up?ft-content-uuid=1119d381-2b1f-4b24-8905-01f65b6d45bc&amp;concept-id=0b83bc44-4a55-4958-882e-73ba6b2b0aa6\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<div id=\"article-body\">\n<p>In a white-collar working environment, at least a British one, which member of staff would receive the following compliment? \u201cShe just runs the place, that\u2019s all!\u201d Or how about this one, which might come with a mock-martial salute. \u201cWe serve at the pleasure of this man.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It isn\u2019t the boss, whose power wouldn\u2019t need stating. No, the object of this studied overpraise will be a receptionist or an executive assistant. When I began office life a generation ago, this behaviour struck me as well-meant. And it was. But over time, something else came through: the awkwardness of credentialed people around non-graduates. Degrees are so cherished among the professional class that we assume those without one must need\u00a0putting at ease around us. The result is this cringing heroisation of grown men and women. \u201cYou\u2019re a lifesaver!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Without knowing it, I was learning about people: their hierarchies and irrationalities, their unwritten codes. I could cite other reasons why the young should go to the office. Three times in 2023, a corporate executive, each in a different sector, has told me that junior staff who work from home are holding back their career in the company, but can\u2019t be informed of that, as a matter of law or protocol. But that\u2019s another column. I want to major for now on the power of the office to socialise people in a way that families, campuses and friendship circles are too narrow to match.<\/p>\n<p>So what else did the office teach me?<\/p>\n<p>Wearing a suit and tie when it isn\u2019t required is a mark of low status, not high. It is \u201cthe south of France\u201d, not \u201csouthern France\u201d. (Getting it wrong suggests you don\u2019t visit or have a second home there, you serf.) The loneliest men in the world are married. To establish trust with someone, disparage a third person in their presence. Self-deprecation is in almost all cases an assertion of higher status. The sign of someone who has been bullied is quite often sublime social skill (the better to defang people) rather than shyness. To rattle your boss, remind them of a bad hire, not an incompetent act of their own direct commission. It stings them more.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"n-content-pullquote n-content-pullquote--no-image\" aria-hidden=\"true\">\n<div class=\"n-content-pullquote__content\">\n<p>For a graduate, those first few years of office life amount to an additional degree, in anthropology<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>And then the most\u00a0useful lesson of all: the averageness of the competition. Except in sectors where the minimum standard is kept high through regulation \u2014 medicine, say, or piloting \u2014 the standard in a profession is always lower than outsiders would credit. This has to be drummed into young people from less privileged backgrounds, all too many of whom believe that every lawyer is Earl Warren, every trader a Fields Medalist. The office allows them to\u00a0observe colleagues\u00a0flail under pressure, utter banalities,\u00a0or just shamble around.\u00a0The ultimate benefit of going to the office is the demystification of the successful.\u00a0You can\u2019t see someone\u2019s clay feet over Zoom.<\/p>\n<p>In my pre-FT days, a superior who was born into the top tier of public life would enter\u00a0my office to run column ideas past me,\u00a0at some length and with some convolution. Mistake, son. It was sweet, but I could sense the self-doubt under that expensive\u00a0veneer. The job had never felt more attainable.<\/p>\n<p>For a graduate, those first few years of office life amount to an additional degree, in anthropology. It is the second-best education in human nature in the world. (The first is dating, where observable behaviour is so consistent, so clockwork, as to make an Enlightenment humanist have second thoughts about free will.)\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I know what you are going to say. Janan, you are writing this on a chaise longue in front of South Africa vs New Zealand in the Cricket World Cup. Your office pass gets less use than Elizabeth Holmes\u2019s passport. But I <em>was<\/em> there in my twenties, when it matters, taking it all in. The little things: if you so much as hint that you don\u2019t like someone\u2019s outfit, they will, however strong in character, stop wearing it, after a proud interval to show they don\u2019t care. The big things:\u00a0affairs between senior women and junior men are easier to keep secret than the inverse, as people don\u2019t suspect them.<\/p>\n<p>For the generation below mine, who have been able to lose themselves in online realms almost since birth, an education in real-life human foibles is all the more precious. But the course is on-site.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>Email Janan at <\/em><em>janan.ganesh@ft.com<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Find out about our latest stories first \u2014 follow <\/em><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ftweekend?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor\" data-trackable=\"link\"><em>@ftweekend<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>Read the full article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ft.com\/content\/1119d381-2b1f-4b24-8905-01f65b6d45bc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stay informed with free updates Simply sign up to the Life &amp; Arts myFT Digest &#8212; delivered directly to your inbox. 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